The power of the animal-human relationship

Australian Magpie

Saman­ta Bloom’s sto­ry first made its way through social media and, via two book releases, also through the print press and is now known world­wi­de. The sto­ry has been some­what can­ni­ba­li­zed, but despi­te the media expo­sure, still very sym­pa­the­tic.

It began in 2013 with a serious acci­dent invol­ving the mother of three during a fami­ly vaca­ti­on in Thai­land. As a result, she retai­ned a para­ple­gia and expe­ri­en­ced many unp­lea­sant things that each affec­ted per­son knows how to tell in his own uni­que way. Then two things came tog­e­ther. First, a litt­le bird ente­red the fami­ly life and second­ly, the hus­band and father Came­ron Bloom is a pho­to­grapher by trade. In sum, this resul­ted in num­e­rous pho­tos in the social media, which recei­ved a lot of atten­ti­on.

This resul­ted in a pho­to­gra­phic book that found its way to Ger­ma­ny in 2017. A detail­ed review of this book can be found on my book blog (only in ger­man: Pen­gu­in Bloom: Der klei­ne Vogel, der unse­re Fami­lie ret­te­te). This pic­tu­re book was framed by the nar­ra­ti­on of Came­ron Bloom as pro­lo­gue and a let­ter of the mother Saman­tha Bloom as epi­lo­gue. Alre­a­dy this com­bi­na­ti­on of illus­tra­ted book and nar­ra­ti­on was very emo­tio­nal and trans­por­ted this sto­ry very impres­si­ve­ly.

In 2021, the book by Saman­tha Bloom then also found its way to Ger­ma­ny, in which she tells in gre­at detail about her life and how she had lived befo­re and after her acci­dent (I also pre­sen­ted this book in more detail on my book blog (only in ger­man): Wie­der flie­gen ler­nen: Mei­ne Geschich­te). It is also this book that was made into a movie with Nao­mi Watts.

The book starts out very devas­ta­ting.

Sin­ce I only have the books trans­la­ted into Ger­man, the­re may be trans­la­ti­on issues when I trans­la­te them back to Eng­lish.

Every mor­ning when I wake up, I die a litt­le.

No mat­ter how much I resist it – I always have to think of the past. When I was still me.

I mourn the life that was taken from me, that was sto­len from my fami­ly. I still can hard­ly belie­ve that ever­y­thing has tur­ned out this way.

(from the pro­lo­gue of the book at approx. 5%)

What she meant by this comes across very well in the book, as she descri­bes her life befo­re the acci­dent as per­fect. Per­haps this is a bit glo­ri­fied and euphe­mi­stic in view of her situa­ti­on. After all, in retro­s­pect, life wit­hout a disa­bi­li­ty may have been so much more worth living from her per­spec­ti­ve. Nevert­hel­ess, who can tell about his life in such a way as Saman­tha Bloom does in her book?

If only I could have stop­ped time.

At that moment, my life was per­fect. I had beco­me a nur­se, a wife and a mother. I had fol­lo­wed my pas­si­on and found true love wit­hout losing my inde­pen­dence.

I was the per­son I had always wan­ted to be.

The per­son I still wan­ted to be.

(at 35% of the ebook)

Who claims that his life is (was) per­fect. I hard­ly know a per­son who claims this about hims­elf in this way. But exact­ly this cir­cum­s­tance streng­thens the emo­tio­na­li­ty of this sto­ry. A woman who is able and pri­vi­le­ged to live her per­fect life is forced by an acci­dent into a life she never wan­ted to live. And is thus repre­sen­ta­ti­ve of all dis­ab­led peo­p­le, all of whom did not aspi­re to live their lives in this way.

What is spe­cial about this sto­ry, howe­ver, is not the blow of fate that mil­li­ons of other peo­p­le have expe­ri­en­ced in a simi­lar way, but the bird that more or less sud­den­ly came into the life of the fami­ly and saved the life of the mother.

I felt redu­ced to a lump of meat […].

In a way, I had alre­a­dy died.

But then a litt­le bird brought me back to life.

[…]

Even today I mar­vel at the fact that two shi­ning eyes and a few grams of fluff were enough to pull me out of my bit­ter uncon­scious­ness, and that they could help save my fami­ly. But tha­t’s exact­ly what hap­pen­ed.

(at 58% of the ebook)

I had thought I was saving her life, but in truth she was saving mine.

(at 62% of the eBook)

Unfort­u­na­te­ly, this does not come across in the film at all. Of cour­se, the film con­veys the emo­tio­nal deep ride of the mother, who is play­ed excel­lent­ly by Nao­mi Watts. The­re are also some striking sce­nes from this bio­gra­phy in the film. Howe­ver, the film was unable to cap­tu­re what was spe­cial about this sto­ry. Name­ly, it was the bird that had such a posi­ti­ve influence not only on the mother, but on all fami­ly mem­bers.

Despi­te this tra­gic sto­ry, it also shows hope that such a new and unwan­ted life is or can be worth living.

Every mor­ning when I wake up, I die a litt­le.

No mat­ter how much I resist it – I always have to think of the past. When I was still me.

I mourn the life that was taken from me, that was sto­len from my fami­ly. I still can hard­ly belie­ve that it all came to this.

[…]

And then I begin to live.

(from the epi­lo­gue of the eBook at 87%)

All dis­ab­led peo­p­le are able to build their lives so that they are worth living again. Not all of them are able to do this. It is not uncom­mon for me to read and hear about peo­p­le who can no lon­ger lea­ve their homes and live a sad exis­tence becau­se they do not allow joy or love into their lives. And alt­hough Saman­tha Bloom does­n’t want to be an encou­ra­gee or a source of inspi­ra­ti­on, she shows that ever­yo­ne can mana­ge to get out of a low point in life and climb back up again. Often this works with the help of a fri­end or a faithful ani­mal or even a plant (I have also read that bon­sai trees (can) have a simi­lar power).

At the end, the aut­hor wri­tes a let­ter to her three sons, in which the­re is a sen­tence that is uni­ver­sal­ly valid and encou­ra­ges them to beco­me awa­re of their own lives and to value them, even if not ever­y­thing always goes as smooth­ly as one would hope.

Plea­se don’t take any­thing for gran­ted; pay atten­ti­on to the spe­cial details and do your best to app­re­cia­te even the smal­lest joys and sur­pri­ses in life, becau­se it is the­se things that you will miss the most if you ever lose them. Belie­ve me, I know about that.

(from the “Let­ter to my three hand­so­me boys” at 96% of the eBook)

Penguin Bloom

Die­ses Buch lebt von den Fotos. Da der Ehe­mann, Vater und Autor des Buchs Came­ron Bloom gleich­zei­tig als Foto­graf arbei­tet, haben die gezeig­ten Fotos durch­weg eine hohe Qua­li­tät. Nicht jedes ist über­ra­gend und so man­ches Motiv wie­der­holt sich, aber den­noch sind alle der­art sehens­wert, dass es Spaß macht, sich das Buch mehr­mals anzu­schau­en.

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Wieder fliegen lernen

Es gibt sehr vie­le emo­tio­na­le Sze­nen, die sehr pas­send mit erst­klas­si­gen Fotos unter­malt sind. Dass der Text etwas knapp aus­ge­fal­len ist, tut dem Buch über­haupt kei­nen Abbruch. Ganz im Gegen­teil, denn dadurch kon­zen­triert sich das Buch auf das Wesent­li­che, zumal das Buch es gera­de­zu ein­for­dert, mehr­fach gele­sen zu wer­den.Zum Review
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