The power of the animal-human relationship

Australian Magpie

Saman­ta Bloom’s sto­ry first made its way through social media and, via two book releas­es, also through the print press and is now known world­wide. The sto­ry has been some­what can­ni­bal­ized, but despite the media expo­sure, still very sym­pa­thet­ic.

It began in 2013 with a seri­ous acci­dent involv­ing the moth­er of three dur­ing a fam­i­ly vaca­tion in Thai­land. As a result, she retained a para­ple­gia and expe­ri­enced many unpleas­ant things that each affect­ed per­son knows how to tell in his own unique way. Then two things came togeth­er. First, a lit­tle bird entered the fam­i­ly life and sec­ond­ly, the hus­band and father Cameron Bloom is a pho­tog­ra­ph­er by trade. In sum, this result­ed in numer­ous pho­tos in the social media, which received a lot of atten­tion.

This result­ed in a pho­to­graph­ic book that found its way to Ger­many in 2017. A detailed review of this book can be found on my book blog (only in ger­man: Pen­guin Bloom: Der kleine Vogel, der unsere Fam­i­lie ret­tete). This pic­ture book was framed by the nar­ra­tion of Cameron Bloom as pro­logue and a let­ter of the moth­er Saman­tha Bloom as epi­logue. Already this com­bi­na­tion of illus­trat­ed book and nar­ra­tion was very emo­tion­al and trans­port­ed this sto­ry very impres­sive­ly.

In 2021, the book by Saman­tha Bloom then also found its way to Ger­many, in which she tells in great detail about her life and how she had lived before and after her acci­dent (I also pre­sent­ed this book in more detail on my book blog (only in ger­man): Wieder fliegen ler­nen: Meine Geschichte). It is also this book that was made into a movie with Nao­mi Watts.

The book starts out very dev­as­tat­ing.

Since I only have the books trans­lat­ed into Ger­man, there may be trans­la­tion issues when I trans­late them back to Eng­lish.

Every morn­ing when I wake up, I die a lit­tle.

No mat­ter how much I resist it – I always have to think of the past. When I was still me.

I mourn the life that was tak­en from me, that was stolen from my fam­i­ly. I still can hard­ly believe that every­thing has turned out this way.

(from the pro­logue of the book at approx. 5%)

What she meant by this comes across very well in the book, as she describes her life before the acci­dent as per­fect. Per­haps this is a bit glo­ri­fied and euphemistic in view of her sit­u­a­tion. After all, in ret­ro­spect, life with­out a dis­abil­i­ty may have been so much more worth liv­ing from her per­spec­tive. Nev­er­the­less, who can tell about his life in such a way as Saman­tha Bloom does in her book?

If only I could have stopped time.

At that moment, my life was per­fect. I had become a nurse, a wife and a moth­er. I had fol­lowed my pas­sion and found true love with­out los­ing my inde­pen­dence.

I was the per­son I had always want­ed to be.

The per­son I still want­ed to be.

(at 35% of the ebook)

Who claims that his life is (was) per­fect. I hard­ly know a per­son who claims this about him­self in this way. But exact­ly this cir­cum­stance strength­ens the emo­tion­al­i­ty of this sto­ry. A woman who is able and priv­i­leged to live her per­fect life is forced by an acci­dent into a life she nev­er want­ed to live. And is thus rep­re­sen­ta­tive of all dis­abled peo­ple, all of whom did not aspire to live their lives in this way.

What is spe­cial about this sto­ry, how­ev­er, is not the blow of fate that mil­lions of oth­er peo­ple have expe­ri­enced in a sim­i­lar way, but the bird that more or less sud­den­ly came into the life of the fam­i­ly and saved the life of the moth­er.

I felt reduced to a lump of meat […].

In a way, I had already died.

But then a lit­tle bird brought me back to life.

[…]

Even today I mar­vel at the fact that two shin­ing eyes and a few grams of fluff were enough to pull me out of my bit­ter uncon­scious­ness, and that they could help save my fam­i­ly. But that’s exact­ly what hap­pened.

(at 58% of the ebook)

I had thought I was sav­ing her life, but in truth she was sav­ing mine.

(at 62% of the eBook)

Unfor­tu­nate­ly, this does not come across in the film at all. Of course, the film con­veys the emo­tion­al deep ride of the moth­er, who is played excel­lent­ly by Nao­mi Watts. There are also some strik­ing scenes from this biog­ra­phy in the film. How­ev­er, the film was unable to cap­ture what was spe­cial about this sto­ry. Name­ly, it was the bird that had such a pos­i­tive influ­ence not only on the moth­er, but on all fam­i­ly mem­bers.

Despite this trag­ic sto­ry, it also shows hope that such a new and unwant­ed life is or can be worth liv­ing.

Every morn­ing when I wake up, I die a lit­tle.

No mat­ter how much I resist it – I always have to think of the past. When I was still me.

I mourn the life that was tak­en from me, that was stolen from my fam­i­ly. I still can hard­ly believe that it all came to this.

[…]

And then I begin to live.

(from the epi­logue of the eBook at 87%)

All dis­abled peo­ple are able to build their lives so that they are worth liv­ing again. Not all of them are able to do this. It is not uncom­mon for me to read and hear about peo­ple who can no longer leave their homes and live a sad exis­tence because they do not allow joy or love into their lives. And although Saman­tha Bloom does­n’t want to be an encour­agee or a source of inspi­ra­tion, she shows that every­one can man­age to get out of a low point in life and climb back up again. Often this works with the help of a friend or a faith­ful ani­mal or even a plant (I have also read that bon­sai trees (can) have a sim­i­lar pow­er).

At the end, the author writes a let­ter to her three sons, in which there is a sen­tence that is uni­ver­sal­ly valid and encour­ages them to become aware of their own lives and to val­ue them, even if not every­thing always goes as smooth­ly as one would hope.

Please don’t take any­thing for grant­ed; pay atten­tion to the spe­cial details and do your best to appre­ci­ate even the small­est joys and sur­pris­es in life, because it is these things that you will miss the most if you ever lose them. Believe me, I know about that.

(from the “Let­ter to my three hand­some boys” at 96% of the eBook)

Penguin Bloom

Dieses Buch lebt von den Fotos. Da der Ehe­mann, Vater und Autor des Buchs Cameron Bloom gle­ichzeit­ig als Fotograf arbeit­et, haben die gezeigten Fotos durch­weg eine hohe Qual­ität. Nicht jedes ist über­ra­gend und so manch­es Motiv wieder­holt sich, aber den­noch sind alle der­art sehenswert, dass es Spaß macht, sich das Buch mehrmals anzuschauen.

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Wieder fliegen lernen

Es gibt sehr viele emo­tionale Szenen, die sehr passend mit erstk­las­si­gen Fotos unter­malt sind. Dass der Text etwas knapp aus­ge­fall­en ist, tut dem Buch über­haupt keinen Abbruch. Ganz im Gegen­teil, denn dadurch konzen­tri­ert sich das Buch auf das Wesentliche, zumal das Buch es ger­adezu ein­fordert, mehrfach gele­sen zu wer­den.Zum Review
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